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Workplace: How To Distinguish Between Noble And Villain In The Workplace

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Career Villain

  

Man is a social animal, unable to live away from society, especially in the society.

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On the other hand, it is more difficult to avoid interacting with many people.

But everyone has his own unique ideas.

At this time, if we insist on our own thinking and unable to communicate well with others, there will be contradictions in the relationship and communication between people, and there will be many obstacles in our work.

At this time, people tend to blame the environment, sorry for themselves, and feel sorry for all their problems.

In order to cope with these unpleasantness, we should learn all kinds of bad means to manipulate and revenge others.


  

At this time, people regard others as their "villains", but themselves become the eyes of others.

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In any case, if we always think that the plight of life is not our own fault, but others add to ourselves, it will be very unhappy and full of powerlessness.

Because often unable to solve the current predicament, they naturally can not exert their potential, so that they have to live a life of their own will.


Because as long as people are

emotion

Stuck, it is very difficult to correctly use their wisdom to see any problems clearly.

But although we can not see the crux of the problem, in order to survive, we have to find justification for ourselves and justify our actions with rationalized excuses.

Such people live in "self defense" and live in hostility and dissatisfaction.

Therefore, it is always hard to tolerate other people's weaknesses, so it is easy to become self righteous characters and create imperfect interpersonal relationships.


Recommendation: "if you can truly experience your inner reality, know yourself well and face yourself honestly, you will feel no sense of helplessness or blame others. Facing yourself is the source of your sense of security.

When we feel the sense of security in life, we have the ability to appreciate and understand the differences of others.

There is no need to get a sense of security by controlling others.

Instead, we can communicate with others in a tolerant and joyful way, and be more capable of helping others and becoming other people's best people.


"Noble people" are happy and natural to give their emotions, and they also like to accept others' feelings. They can enjoy their achievements frankly and support and praise others' achievements.

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